Confidence Coaching
Ever since I became a life coach or more accurately a confidence coach, I have had people ask me the same damn 3 questions 1. What the fuck is a confidence coach? 2. Do I really need a confidence coach? 3. Why don’t you help women? So let’s address them, once and for all.
Life coaching has been around for over 50 years, but is just now beginning to gain popularity as both a career and as an alternative to therapy. Life coaching is different in that it is targeted towards what you want to achieve in life and a lot less talking about how you were fucked up in your childhood. Coaches don’t prescribe valium as a way of dealing with life’s problems, instead we deal with them head on with our clients and work on them as a team. We listen, and use both our training and personal insights/experience to help you make changes in your life that you might be struggling with.
What the fuck is a confidence coach?
Answer : A confidence coach helps people (I help exclusively men). Reasons are listed below in #3) gain the (balls) confidence to make decisions that are right for them. When a person is constantly second guessing themselves they are terrified of making decisions. Hesitation can lead to lost opportunities, lost income, and lost sense of accomplishment. They are constantly living a reactionary life and putting out fires, as opposed to a more confident purposeful calmer life. A truly confident person isn’t afraid of being wrong and they don’t say YES unless they really want to.
Do I really need a confidence coach?
Answer : I don’t fucking know, do you? You have to be able to make those types of decisions on your own, but judging by your inability to know what exactly you need, my guess is that you need one. Nobody is going to make decisions for you your whole life, and hopefully you don’t want them to. At some point you need to stand up for yourself and start taking charge of your life and be responsible for your own actions. Having the confidence and clear ideas of what it is you want to achieve are key factors in being successful, and more importantly happy. People that have confidence get pleasure from their own accomplishments not from what others think of their accomplishments. In other words : You do you, and I do me.
Why don’t you help women?
Answer: Because I am too sexy, and women find me irresistable. Seriously, women have a ton of help out there for them. Almost everything is geared towards them lately, and while that’s cool and all, it means that men have fewer outlets for support. Men are expected to be fucking kings, with all the answers, to be able to fix everything, to never cry, to never complain, and to put everyone else first. Men are expected to be the rock in today’s society, and when we fail we are called losers, deadbeats, and assholes. Another reason why I exclusively help men is because we have our own language. We curse, we say shit to each other that would be misconstrued by others and if we are constantly editing ourselves we can’t truly be ourselves. We do too much of that shit as it is and it isn’t helpful.
So if I have offended you with my cursing, my policies, or whatever else, please simply move on. I am not for you. That doesn’t bother me. But if you think I might be able to help you, and answer some questions you are struggling with then by all means reach out to me. We can talk, or you can read my blogs, and ask me questions.
Write me at Karl@seckingercoachingservices.com.
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