My Story
My name is Karl Seckinger. I am a normal guy, I don´t have any type of superhuman strength, or anyhing else that would make me stand out in a crowd. But I do have a superpower. I do one thing that most people can't or don't do. I help build confidence in my clients. I noticed a long time ago that everyone helps women and children. There are lots of programs to help out those perceived as "Weaker" or " More Vulnerable". But there are precious few places where men can get help. Men are supposed to be strong, and not require help, or at the bear minimum they need to figure it out for themselves. So, that's what I did. I figured it out for myself. I had massive limiting beliefs that were stopping me from trusting myself. I literally didn't have the faith in my own abilities that others seemed to have in me. That was just the beginning. I finally knew the problem, but now I had to figure out why I was so messed up and how could I fix it.
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The why was the easy part. I was a nerd in school and I was constantly picked on. I was called ugly and stupid for most of my childhood. I was never popular. I was just your average, nerdy, kid with bad grades. My family all had advanced degrees when I didn't. I was the funny one, but not the successful one. I was the one with ADD, and a bad temper . I made bad, horrific decisions that shocked others. I always wondered how people could be so successful when I was struggling so badly. I had issues.
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I came across an old speech. One from the 1920s. One that gave me a clue that perhaps, just maybe, I wasn't the first guy to go through these isssues. I identified being The Man in The Arena. I was the one fighting to my face marred with sweat and blood. I had to start ignoring the critics in my life. But how? They had hounded me my entire life. They had changed how I thought of myself. What I decided to do was huge. It was going to create problems for other people, but lessen my problems greatly. It was going to be a huge scarey step. I had to get away from the people that were causing all the drama in my life, the ones that were making me emotionally exhausted, and the ones that were causing me to doubt myself. I cut out people (problem makers) that had been in my life for 20+ years, I got divorced, and eventually moved overseas. In my search to get over my limiting beliefs and regain my confidence, I finally decided that I no longer had to care about other people's opinions over my own. This was my the beginning of my turning point. All helped me change the way I saw the world. I started to see all of the possibilities instead of negativities. This is when I truly began to find and feel my confidence and stopped being so scared. I stopped living in a reaction fear based life. And that has made all the difference. I am no longer emotionally exhausted, I am making better decisions, and have more confidence in everything I do.
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One I began to see results and my life begin to change I wondered why men were so ignored. Nobody coaches men on changing their lives. I know if i can do it anybody can. Why is the such a lack of male life coaches? I studied Life Coaching to help change my life for the better, and in the process became a certified Life Coach specializing in confidence coaching. In the process I decided I wanted to help other men reach their goals too. . So if you are a guy finding yourself struggling and you aren't really sure why. Ask for help. reach out. Ask somebody that has been through it. It will be worth it and I promise I won't take away your Bro Card.
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Karl Seckinger
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